I don’t know how any woman could have enough confidence to date Paolo without feeling horrible pangs of jealousy. The self-assurance one would need to ignore his constant and vigorous flirting with anyone with no Y chromosome (and some with), would make a person a monster. Self-assured enough to murder anyone who annoyed her. Confident enough to commandeer a car any time she needed to go anywhere. I do not want to be a monster. I’m not that psychotically self-assured and never will be. So, to safeguard my humanity and my compassion, I’m just going to kill Paolo in his sleep. That’s reasonable, right?